Thinking of visiting
the Mecca of tango?
Are you ready for the challenges which await you?
Are your
expectations realistic?
Here is one person’s opinion – not expert, not comprehensive,
but coming from a lot of observation and personal experience.
Visitors
to BsAs need as many assets as possible to break into the local milonga scene –
and I’m talking about the traditional milongas here, such as
La Nacional,
El Beso,
Plaza Bohemia, Lo de
Celia, etc.
So here’s my list:
- Make an effort with your personal
hygiene and appearance (for a man, that can include wearing a jacket).
- A
good embrace is a must, and the first step you take is a defining moment –
make it count.
- You need to dance well if you are to be noticed,
and then desired as a possible partner
- And you need to appear interested and confident
– look
like you belong in the milonga
Now some basic codes that should be respected:
- Using the cabeceo
is essential …. and for ladies, that also means remaining
in your seats until the man arrives
- Good navigation
skills must be used to avoid embarrassing collisions, or disturbing the
dancers around you. This means following a tight line-of-dance and respecting
neighbouring dancers’ space.
- It is important to dance appropriately and conservatively.
No big figures, gentlemen. Nor feet off the floor, ladies. Everyone sees everything in the milonga - dancing
that doesn’t fit in, is quickly condemned in people’s minds
- When dancing, there needs to be maximum
concentration on your partner – it’s
not about you, it’s about them. Add
to this, musicality that reflects familiarity with the music, and how to
respond to it.
So will breaking into the scene take a long time?
There are a number of factors to keep an eye
on, quite apart from the above list (e.g. don’t sit as a couple if you expect
to dance with other partners).
Here are
some extra tips:
- Stay for a reasonable period in BsAs (no, two
weeks aren’t long enough), attend the same milonga regularly, and return to BsAs
as often as you can to re-connect with partners you have met
- If you get a couple of dances on your first
night, and your partners liked what they felt, then they will probably look out
for you next time ..... when you may then find a couple more new partners
- Have patience, and an understanding of social
pressures – local people go to the milongas to see and dance with their
friends, so there is an element of wanting to dance together first. You may have to wait and persist. And while you may not get many dances in your
early visits to the milongas, there is lots to interest the true tango lover,
such as listening to the music, and watching the dancers.
These thoughts are the product of 15 years of annual visits
to BsAs, when in the early years, lack of competence, ignorance ... and
a reasonable dose of fear, meant that we only danced as a couple. No-one had told us anything about how to fit
in, about the codes, about dancing that was appropriate. Then there was a period of ‘dipping our toes
in the water’, until we had eventually developed our skill, understanding, and confidence
enough to fully embrace the ‘singles’ scene at the traditional milongas
mentioned at the start, and to look forward to making local tango connections. Above all, we came to utterly respect and
enjoy the codes and customs of the milongas that belong to the people of
BsAs.
There’s probably more that could be added to my list. What
do you think?
Bob
PS. If you’re thinking of visiting BsAs for the first time
to dance tango, and your teachers haven’t prepared you for what awaits, then
make sure you talk to people who know.
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