tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1214689279850264511.post2307578183865194625..comments2023-04-16T19:01:10.443+09:30Comments on Tango Salón - Adelaide: How are your conversation/tango skills?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1214689279850264511.post-39203931676561161782015-08-10T17:54:29.589+09:302015-08-10T17:54:29.589+09:30Thanks for your comment, Anonymous, and for adding...Thanks for your comment, Anonymous, and for adding to my list.<br /><br />What you describe appears to be good manners, if you were using the direct approach when inviting someone to dance. But, in my opinion, the main recipients of your good manners would be the other people at the table, not the invitee. However, if the invitee has somehow already indicated their interest in dancing with you, that's a different matter. Furthermore, if they are with a partner, you might also comment to the partner afterwards, how much you enjoyed the tanda.<br /><br />Unfortunately, if the invitee has not already shown interest in dancing with you, the direct approach doesn't allow him/her to decline your invitation without causing embarrassment and discomfort. Hence, the value of the cabeceo.<br /><br />Nobody is perfect. We can all make mistakes. The best things to do are to read body language, size up the situation and do your best to ensure that feelings are not hurt.<br />PPTango Salon Adelaidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14602664648454154268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1214689279850264511.post-91318681935441234912015-08-10T17:18:53.872+09:302015-08-10T17:18:53.872+09:30Maybe you should introduce the most basic element ...Maybe you should introduce the most basic element the pause, take a moment before you start by acknowledge those around the table especially, if that person has a partner next to them.<br /><br />Be aware of your sounding otherwise the way you treat others is the way they will treat you. <br /><br /> <br /> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com